Personality Isn't Permanent: Break Free from Self Limiting Beliefs and Rewrite Your Story by Benjamin Hardy

Benjamin Hardy draws on research to kill the popular misconception that personality--a person's consistent attitudes and behaviors--is innate and unchanging.

Hardy’s idea is to set people free from the limiting belief that our "true selves" are to be discovered. He shows how we can intentionally create our desired selves and achieve amazing goals instead. He offers practical advice for personal reinvention.

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You're About to Make a Terrible Mistake: How Biases Distort Decision-Making and What You Can Do to Fight Them by Olivier Sibony

Strategy professor and management consultant Olivier Sibony draws on dozens of engaging case studies to show how cognitive biases routinely lead all of us into nine common decision-making traps.

But this book is different because instead of just serving up the same old “biases” that contaminate decision making, Sibony says the best way to avoid the screwups of cognitive bias is to design a “decision-making architecture” that uses everyone’s smarts to make the best decisions. He also provides 40 practical ways for doing so.

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Emotional Intelligence 2.0 by Travis Bradberry and Jean Greaves


In the fast lane of work today, people spend far more time on computer keyboards, smartphones, presentations and conference calls than in actual face-to-face communication. In this increasingly unnatural and complex environment, emotional intelligence is more important than ever before. This handy book is filled with invaluable insights and practical tips that can potentially transform you as a person and as a professional.

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My 2020 books: full list and top 3

The book is an essential part of my daily routine. These days I read so much that I feel I must a) keep some record and b) share my findings with the world. Because some books are simply spectacular and unforgettable.

In this blog post, I write on all the books I’ve read and reviewed from 1 Jan 2020 to 31 Dec 2020and the three books I liked the most.

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The Power of Others by Michael Bond

Teenage cliques, jihadist cells, army units, Arab Spring protesters, polar expeditions, and football hooligans.

On the face of it, each of these groups might seem exceptional, but the forces that bind and drive them can affect us all. In recent decades, psychologists have uncovered how and why our innate socialness holds huge sway over how we think and act, propelling us to both high achievement and unthinking cruelty.

We are beholden to our peers, even when we think we’re calling the shots. This is the power of others.

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Influence: Science and Practice by Robert Cialdini

Life is hectic.

We cannot analyze every decision we need to make. So we depend on shortcuts like "if everybody thinks it's good, then it must be good". Those shortcuts are quite helpful and most of the time they work.

But they are occasionally exploited. This book is about how people use our mental shortcuts to get us to say "YES". You'll learn the six universal principles, how to use them to become a skilled persuader—and how to defend yourself against them.

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Skin in the Game by Nassim Nicholas Taleb

Taleb explores the idea of disincentivizing undesirable behavior. His solution is to enable decision makers who currently have only upside (asymmetry) to be more accountable by exposing them to the negative consequences of their actions as well (symmetry). Hence, he asks for asymmetry to be replaced with symmetry.

Skin in the Game is his fifth book. The Black Swan, a smashing success praised for its prophetic theme and huge relevance, looked – just before the financial crash of 2007 – at low probability, high-impact events.

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Trillion Dollar Coach: The Leadership Playbook of Silicon Valley's Bill Campbellby Alan Eagle, Eric Schmidt, and Jonathan Rosenberg

When you hear about Silicon Valley’s huge success stories — Intel, Apple, Google, Amazon, Facebook, you inevitably hear the names of founders and key executives — Steve Jobs, Larry Page, Sergey Brin, Jeff Bezos, Marisa Mayer, or Sheryl Sandberg. Unless you dig deep, you won’t hear the name Bill Campbell. He helped to build some of Silicon Valley’s greatest companies—including Google, Apple, and Intuit—and to create over a trillion dollars in market value.

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A World Without Work by Daniel Susskind

The economist Robert Skidelsky wrote that fears of technological unemployment were not so much wrong as premature: “Sooner or later, we will run out of jobs.” The title of Daniel Susskind’s book, therefore, is like a reiteration. Susskind has come up with an explainer rather than a polemic, written in the relentlessly reasonable tone of a clever, sensible man telling you what’s what. Susskind’s thesis — that we are heading towards a world in which human work will become obsolete — is built on the idea that most of the conventional notions about AI learning have been wrong.

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Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life by Nir Eyal

When I was the MD of a small training company, there were two standing orders on the use of Smartphones. One was that no one should bring their phones into a meeting and if they did, they couldn’t check it while the meeting was in progress.

The second was that no student should check their pones during class (they had breaks) and if they did, I would call them out.

The reason was simple. Getting distracted like this is not just insulting to your colleagues/trainer, it’s also hugely unproductive.

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Humankind: A Hopeful History by Rutger Bregman

One belief that has united most people is the assumption that humans are bad. It's a notion that drives newspaper headlines and guides the laws that shape our lives. From Machiavelli to Hobbes, Freud to Pinker, the roots of this belief have sunk deep. Human beings, we're taught, are by nature selfish. But what if it isn't true? Rutger Bregman provides a new perspective on the past 200,000 years of human history, setting out to prove that we are hardwired for kindness, geared toward cooperation rather than competition, and more inclined to trust rather than distrust one another. He states that this instinct has a firm evolutionary basis going back to the beginning of Homo sapiens.

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12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson

Canadian clinical psychologist Jordan B Peterson has, in recent years, become an internet celebrity, producing a slew of videos and interviews on all manner of political and social topics. And while his views have marginalized him within the academic community, they have bolstered his reputation in conservative circles and among millions of young men and women.

12 Rules for Life is his long and often peculiar foray into the self-help genre. It is a book that combines sensible advice obtained from his clinical practice with inspirational anecdotes from his personal life,

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